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🔊 YOU DON’T NEED TO BE MORE “CHILL,” LESS “NEEDY,” OR CONSTANTLY QUESTION WHETHER THIS IS EVEN WORTH IT.⬇️

You just need to become securely attached—and then...love stops feeling like a battle scene

( ⚡Pssst this is the EXACT method that's helped hundreds of women stop chasing, over-giving, or pushing away love!)
ANXIOUS-AVOIDANT-FEARFUL NO MORE!

I’m SO ready to heal my attachment style—

so I can feel secure, steady, and safe in love...

without clinging, shutting down, or losing myself in the process—

Because the real shift doesn’t happen magically—
It happens when you become secure enough to attract it, create it, and receive it…
so love and success becomes your daily experience.

✅ Heal your attachment patterns
✅ Regulate your nervous system
✅ Elevate your self-worth 

I’M READY TO BECOME A SECURE ATTACHER💫
Let’s get real.... mastering HOW to SHOW-UP securely is key to a healthy relationship that's built to last

Becoming securely attached doesn’t mean becoming perfect.
It means you no longer need to chase love or shut down just to protect yourself.

You stop abandoning your needs or seeking so much space to keep the peace.
You stop performing the “cool girl” or "good girl" act just to feel chosen.
You stop exploding or collapsing when you don’t feel understood.

When you heal your attachment style, everything shifts:

💬 You express your needs without over-explaining, shrinking, or fearing rejection
🧠 You stay calm and connected—even when things feel uncertain
💓 You open your heart to truly receive love

The result?
Relationships that feel steady. Safe. Real.

This isn’t just about communication (it never has been)—
It’s a full energy shift.
It’s who you become when you feel secure from the inside out.

She had all but given up on relationships:

"For the first time in over 5 years, I am in a happy, committed relationship and feel more myself than I EVER have"

 
Bridget (Avoidant): The Secure Attacher gave her the tools to heal her avoidant attachment style, open up and create the deep connection she secretly craved. She met an amazing man and just had a beautiful baby boy *update -she's just got married! ❤️
I know what it's like...
...Texting perfectly, not replying “too fast,” hiding your hopes—and still getting ghosted, breadcrumbed, or shut out.

You’re doing everything you can to create connection, but it always feels just out of reach.

😖 Saying yes when you mean no—just to keep the peace
😖 Doing therapy and all the “inner work,” but still feeling anxious, reactive, or shut down
😖 Expressing your needs the “healthy” way—only to be met with silence, anger or distance
😖 Trying to show up perfectly, but constantly feeling like you’re the problem

😖 Trying to not find flaws but can't help but notice his unpolished shoes...

It’s exhausting. Frustrating...and deeply lonely.

But here’s what no one tells you:
It’s not that you haven’t tried hard enough ( you have- and probably too hard)


It’s that your attachment style is still in charge.

These patterns—clinging, avoiding, shutting down, over-giving—aren’t flaws.

They’re survival strategies your nervous system learned to feel safe in love.

But what once protected you is now keeping you stuck.

And now? It’s time to unlearn them.

When you heal your attachment style, connection stops feeling like a performance.
You stop trying to earn love—and start feeling safe to actually receive it.

That’s when everything begins to change and...

love stops feeling like an uphill battle.

 

What if...?
  • What if, instead of chasing love or waiting for your partner to change, you became so securely anchored in yourself that everything else started falling into place?

  • What if, as you healed, your attracted a healthier or partner or your avoidant partner naturally felt safer to open up —without you having to push so hard ( or at all) 

  • What if you didn’t have to give up your needs to keep the connection, or push them cos you didn't feel safe… and could could trust love will stay—feeling balanced, steady, and free?
  • What if you no longer had to choose between love and freedom—because feeling secure within gave you both?

If any of this sounds impossible, I want you to know that it’s 100% possible for you.

And I know that, because I’ve been exactly where you are now as have 100s of my clients.

And that's why I've created this course.

🎯It's my PROVEN step-by-step roadmap to heal your attachment style, become secure and help you create the secure, fulfilling relationship you've always wanted...

All from an Attachment Style Relationship Coach who's helped 100s of women just like you 

It works for EVERY attachment style {no, seriously, it really does - I will guide you through specific strategies tailored to your unique attachment needs...

 

I’M DONE WITH ANXIOUS-AVOIDANT LOVE—I’M CHOOSING SECURE🎉
Introducing…

THE SECURE ATTACHER

The Complete Roadmap To Love That Feels Safe, Mutual, And Steady—Without Chasing, Shutting Down, Or Sacrificing Who You Are.

PAY IN FULL

$555

GIVE ME FULL ACCESS

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$299

START MODULE 1-4 TODAY!

...The Secure Attacher is my signature 7-Step Secure Way Method to help you create consistent and stable love by building a secure attachment style. This'll transform your love life forever.

 

LET ME SHOW YOU WHAT I MEAN ⬇️

The Secure Attacher will help you to go... ...
FROM THIS 🤯
TO THIS🤗
Frantically typing out a novel-length text about their short "ok" reply. Accusing them that they don't care about you anymore!
Pausing to take a breath before you text back—and still showing up with love. 💖
From spiralling cos they've not called or they've cancelled yet again and now you're plotting your escape plan. 😖 🤦🏽‍♀️
Feeling safe in your relationship—while your partner takes the lead, plans date nights,and creates special moments to be with you. with you without saying a word about it! 🙃
You're tossing and turning after another argument about quality time together and your partner's response "We see each other every day!"
Resolving conflicts so smoothly you both feel more in love after disagreements, in less time than it takes to watch a Bridgerton episode!🥳

Amna healed her anxious attachment style, which transformed her emotionally distant marriage back to "the honeymoon phase". Her once avoidant husband now is vulnerable willingly!"⬇️

Let's break it down...the 7-Steps!
STEP ONE

ATTACHMENT STYLE UNLOCKED

Becoming unstuck from your attachment style 

  • Uncover the fantasy that keeps fuelling your attachment style that's creating havoc in your relationship (it's not what you think!) 
  • Shift your approach to a more secure one so that you stop clinging or pushing your partner away without realising. 
  • Discover the game-changing insights that previous clients swear by to kick-start a more stable love life

(value $199)

STEP TWO

MASTERING THE NERVOUS SYSTEM

Create emotional stability and calmness from within 🧘🏽‍♀️

  • Decode the hidden 'danger' signals your attachment style sends to the body, activating you or your partner's fight-or-flight response.

  • Say hello to practical tools that keep you calm even in heated moments so you don't say things you later regret!

  • Transform your reactions from triggering to tuned-in, creating the emotional safety and balance you've always craved in relationships.

(value $297)

STEP THREE

WORTHY OF LOVE 

Rewire your self-worth so you stop chasing or pushing away love—and start feeling like an equal in it.

  • Identify how your attachment style shaped your self-worth—and how it's been quietly impacting who you choose, how you show up, and what you tolerate

  • Break free from the belief that you’re too much, not enough, or hard to love—and finally feel like you bring value to the table just by being you

  • Embody the secure version of you  that allows you to show up as your full self—without apology

(value $297)

 

STEP FOUR

BUILD YOUR SECURE IDENTITY

Become truly inter-dependent.

  • Build your core values and non-negotiables creating healthy standards in all relationship that align with your authentic self.
  • Build an unshakeable foundation of self-confidence that supports you in all your relationships not just your intimate one.

(value $199)

 
STEP FIVE

ANXIOUS-AVOIDANT TO SECURE

Break-free from the dance and get a win-win🤗

  • Uncover the surprising truth that is continuing the anxious-avoidant dance that's leaves you feeling unfulfilled and misunderstood
  • Gain tools to end the exhausting chase-and-withdraw pattern so that you create closeness effortlessly!
  • Form a balanced, secure relationship where you and your partner feel seen, heard, and valued. 

(value $297)

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STEP SIX

BOUNDARIES AS A BRIDGE

Set limits without spiralling into guilt or pushing your partner away! 

  • Set boundaries as an anxious attacher so skillfully your partner thanks you for it!
  • Learn the exact words to use when you need space, so your anxious partner feels reassured instead of rejected
  • Relish the peace as a fearful avoidant, confident your boundary-setting skills create both safety AND deep connection! 

(value $297)

STEP SEVEN

GET YOUR NEEDS MET

..WITHOUT OVER-GIVING  

  • Learn the real art of expressing needs as an anxious/fearful attacher so your avoidant partner truly hears them.
  • Overcome the paralysing fear of asking for what you want clearly as a fearful or avoidant attacher 
  • Feel deep fulfilment and closeness as you experience the power of both partners' needs being understood and met   

(value $199)

What graduates of The Secure Attacher said...

 

SHHH...YOU ALSO GET THESE HUGE BONUSES! 🤫
BONUS 1

Healthy Communication

This game-changing bonus on you’ll identify your unique conflict style based on your attachment style. Instead of tiptoeing around issues or exploding after holding it all in, you’ll start having the kinds of conversations that actually bring you closer as you’ll learn how to express your thoughts, feelings, and needs clearly and calmly. Communication stops feeling like a minefield—and starts becoming the thing that deepens your bond.

($397 value)

BONUS 2

Feminine & Masculine Energy

Discover the nuanced interplay between feminine and masculine energies in this game-changing bonus module! Armed with these insights of the male and female brain, you'll radically transform how you show up in your love life.

($297 value)
BONUS 3

Lifetime Access

Get lifetime access so you can revisit and refresh any time!!

($297 value)
"I feel like my relationship with my boyfriend now is a more mature version of it. This feels much more real and meaningful and like we’re actually getting somewhere in a relationship versus just talking, guessing and mind-reading"
Get The Best Kept Secret Of Secure Relationships...
  • 7-Step Secure Way Method (Value $1785)
  • BONUS 1:  Worthy of Love  (Value $397)
  • BONUS 2: Feminine & Masculine Energy (Value $297)
  • BONUS 3: Q&A with Shabana (Value $297)
  • Expert Guidance: 5 years of experience coaching attachment styles (Value $297)
  • Tools, insights, exercises, meditations, subconscious work and more.. (value $397) 

 

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PAY IN FULL
$997 $555
GIVE ME FULL ACCESS!
2 EASY PAYMENTS OF
$499 $297
STEPS 1-4 TODAY!
PAY IN FULL
$997 $555
GIVE ME FULL ACCESS!
2 EASY PAYMENTS OF
$499 $297
STEPS 1-4 TODAY!
*NEW* $111 * 6 months

Love Notes...

When they became a Secure Attacher, their nervous system AND love life transformed...

Imagine …

😍 Navigating your relationship with confidence and ease—knowing that no matter what comes up, you’ve got the tools to handle it.

😍 Your partner waiting for you to come home, excited to connect and share their day—because you've created a bond between you that just feels that safe.

😍 Staying calm in moments that used to trigger you—surprising your partner (and yourself) as you both stay present, open, and connected.

😍 Expressing yourself clearly and authentically—saying “no” when you need to, asking for what you want, and trusting your relationship can hold it.

😍 The exhausting push-pull is finally over. No more huge fights followed by silence—just honest conversations that bring you closer.

😍 You’re no longer stuck overanalysing every word or wondering if the problem is you—you understand your needs and your partner’s behaviour.

😍 Feeling grounded, secure, and self-assured in your relationship—free from emotional chaos, fear, or the need to overperform.

LET’S REWIRE MY ATTACHMENT STYLE🙌🏾
So, What is The Secure Attacher Anyways?

 

The Secure Attacher is my proven 7-Step Secure Way Method that teaches you how to HEAL your attachment style & BREAK-UP with the anxious-avoidant dance for good.

It gives you my 7-Step Method to create a relationship securely that you longer need to sacrifice your needs or lose your independence.

Seriously, I don't want to gate-keep this anymore because everyone deserves a healthy and happy relationship. 

By the end of the course, you’ll…

  • You'll gain CLEAR & PRACTICAL insights to heal your attachment style and show up in a secure way.

  • You'll discover EXACTLY what is keeping you in the anxious-avoidant dance which is keeping love at bay AND how to fix it

  • You''ll master strategies to create secure love effortlessly and with way more integrity. 

    ALL this and so MUCH MORE..

No more doing it alone.

No more overthinking. No more second-guessing.

 

I WANT THE 7-STEP METHOD!

"The Mindset Resets of the Secure Attacher are worth their weight in GOLD"

Rob- Avoidant Attacher who did the work and now is dating The Secure Way.

...WHAT ELSE MAKES THIS COURSE UNIQUE?
1. NOT A COOKIE-CUTTER STYLE

Simple and clear steps to help you feel more secure in your relationship without digging up old hurts, repeating affirmations. & endless inner child work  This course gives you tools to for changed thinking and behaviour so that you being true to who you are all AND have a secure relationship- with a one-size-doesn't-fit-all approach

2. HUMAN CONVERSATION

If you're looking for yet another course about how to have the perfect conversation starters or canned statements, this isn’t for you. I show you how to communicate with your partner that brings out your personality, not dial it down so that you can have colour, connection and energy.

The Secure Attacher Promise
100% MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

I'm 100% convinced that you'll LOVE this course!

That's why I'm offering you a 14-day money-back guarantee!

In the highly unlikely event that you don't love The Secure Attacher you can request your money back within 14-days of purchase and get a full refund!

No questions asked!

ATTACHMENT STYLES

Every module. Yes. Every Module has a specific focus on each of the attachment styles: anxious, avoidant and fearful You’ll never again be left wondering if your partner is truly avoidant or fearful or just not that into you. You get eyeballs into your partner's mind so you'll know EXACTLY what they're thinking and feeling.

A NEW APPROACH

If you're willing to actively unlearn what you have been told to do in relationships and apply new skills, you'll see your relationship transform. It will require way LESS effort, way less stress, and you will gain way MORE intimacy (and now just in your intimate relationship). 

She had been on-off relationships for 10 years: 

"This is the first time in over a DECADE that I’m in a REAL relationship, and thanks to this program it is BY FAR the most stable relationship I’ve been in"

Hiwa-Fearful Avoidant -She worked on her Fearful avoidant attachment style where she had been pushing partner's away whenever they got close. Now in stable & secure relationship!
HAVE WE MET?

Hi, I'm Shabana.

YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLES COACH.

I'm your go-to girl for all things attachment styles, relationship transformation, and making your love life as secure and fulfilling as possible.

I've been navigating the complex world of attachment styles since 2016 and today I've helped countless women transform their relationships and find secure love.

But it wasn't always like that:

When I first started my journey, I was stuck in the anxious-avoidant trap. I was a fearful-avoidant, constantly walking on eggshells, and pushing down my needs (or demanding them so hard) I could barely breathe.

After years of this exhausting cycle, I hit rock bottom with screaming matches, silent treatments, and a relationship that was hanging by a thread.

It was soul-crushing, but once I became securely attached, my relationships also became secure, stable & consistent, 

Since 2019, I've focused exclusively on attachment styles and relationship coaching. 

Now, I can't wait to share my 7-Step Secure Way Method, powerful communication strategies, and proven relationship insights and tools with you.

So that you get the relationships you deserve: the secure and safe love that makes you weak in the knees. 

You ready?

Let's go. xx

 Get your Secure Attacher Roadmap now and CREATE the path to a healthy relationship every single day with ease and confidence 

YES-I'M READY TO FEEL SAFE IN LOVE-INSIDE OUT 🎯

Is this you?

  • You're tired of feeling like you're always on an emotional rollercoaster, analysing every text and interaction and wondering why your parter doesn't care?

  • You're trying so hard, on the defensive or looking out for warning signs, because there's no real consistency to your relationship...

  • You are exhausted from the constant worry of the relationship suddenly ending or wondering if you're even in the right relationship?

  • You have so much love to give, and you know you're worth so much more, but building a lasting relationship feels like an uphill battle.

  • You are burnt out from the push-pull dance, and you're ready to finally make relationships feel easy, stress-free, genuine and secure?

If any of these sounds like you, hit the join now button 👇🏽, because you’re EXACTLY where you need to be.

What you get _______,

LETS BRING IT TOGETHER!

The Secure Attacher: Your Complete Roadmap to a Healthy, Stable, and Consistent Relationship, plus my proven 7-Step Secure Way Method, 4 powerful bonuses to supercharge your transformation and so much more...

  • 7-Step Secure Way Method (Value $997)
  • BONUS 1:  Healthy Secure Communication  (Value $397)
  • BONUS 2: Feminine & Masculine Energy (Value $297)
  • BONUS 3: Q&A with Shabana (Value $297)
  • Expert Guidance: 5 years of experience coaching attachment styles (Value $297)
  • Tools, insights, exercises, meditations, subconscious work and more.. (value $397)  

ALL OF THIS FOR $2682
ONLY $555* 

(or 2 payments of $299)

ALL OF THIS FOR $3470

ONLY $997 $555 (or start $199 today)

PAY IN FULL

$555

GIVE ME FULL ACCESS

2 EASY PAYMENTS OF

$299

START MODULE 1-4 TODAY!

"I LOVE the Secure Attacher course!

It taught me EVERYTHING about attachment styles, not just the one I was struggling with, which I really appreciate because it helped me better understand those around me!

Now, I can confidently say I feel SECURE within."

Jalila- Anxious Attacher- Secure 

IF YOU'RE STILL READING...
You may be asking yourself...

HOW MUCH ARE YOU MISSING OUT ON EVERY DAY BECAUSE YOU'RE STUCK IN THE PUSH-PULL BUT DON'T KNOW HOW TO GET OUT?

I’ve transformed my own relationships using the 7-Step Secure Way Method inside this course, and I’ve seen countless others do the same.

Inside The Secure Attacher, I will show you how to break free from anxious-avoidant patterns and create a stable, SECURE and loving relationship so that you feel seen, heard, and understood.

Whether you’re anxious, fearful or avoidant stuck in a cycle of push and pull, o just a gal looking for love this course will give you the tools to transform your relationships (AND maybe even your life!)

Are you READY to experience the freedom and joy that secure attachment brings and get the love and connection you deserve?

See you on the other side…!

 

Shabana XoXo

 

I’m Ready to Start Feeling Secure💖